Paralian

Not Just Transgender.

Paralian

The term “Paralian” comes from ancient Greek origins, meaning “one who lives by the sea”. There could be no more apt title for Liam Klenk’s memoir. In Paralian – Not Just Transgender, he recounts the sweeping and nomadic movements of his life via the lens of the rivers, lakes, and oceans by which he periodically makes a home. Water is the element of change and transition. It is also the element at the heart of so many human-nature entanglements; the resource that has always defined and guided the movements of our species. Fittingly for a tale of bodies, travels, challenges, transitions, and wandering, Liam uses bodies of water to parse the sections of his life like chapters in a narrative.

The voice and experience of Liam Klenk is tender, vulnerable, and honest. It comes to the reader unassumingly and asks only for a patient ear. As the title would suggest, Paralian – Not Just Transgender tells a tale far wider in scope than Liam’s courageous journey through gender reassignment. If anything, the story is about the contexts that occur before, during, and afterwards.

Paralian tells the story of a human being finding his place in this world against a lifetime’s worth of adversity.

Written with an engaging sense of humour, this incredibly frank memoir challenges common stereotypes and will find readers still thinking about what they have read long after they finish the book.

Paralian has won best debut book at the 2016 Rainbow Awards.

It has also been awarded “Recommended Read” by book review platforms such as Bookmuse, Bookbag, Reader’s Favorite, etc.

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  1. A universal, vivid story about life and finding yourself that will appeal to readers of all ages. Moreover, I found Paralian to be a transgender story like no other, refreshingly positive, open-minded, and good-humoured.

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  2. Paralian is an Ancient Greek word, meaning one who lives by the sea. Here, we follow the author’s journey through life, narrated by his relationship to water – the river he grew up near, the oceans he crosses, and the water that later becomes his place of work. A tumultuous journey, we follow the author in his quest to find authentic self and happiness, against an incredible array of adversities. At five months old, Liam was adopted from an orphanage – and thus began a journey to conquer childhood disability, issues with parents, marriages, divorces, and gender dysphoria.

    The tragic life story had rather a renaissance in recent times – A Child Called It by Dave Pelzer, Ugly by Constance Briscoe, A Million Little Pieces by James Frey (although that one was later to be found to be more fiction than fact), have all been part of a publishing phenomenon in the last 20 years. They all tended to be horribly upsetting, ending with a ray of hope but normally shaking the readers belief in humanity somewhat.

    So, it was with some trepidation that I picked up Paralian – I did have some doubts that that this would be a traumatic and upsetting read. And, in part, I was right – there is trauma, and there is upset, and Liam Klenk goes through more than most will ever go through in their lives. But this isn’t a difficult or hard read at all, as the author has such an incredible will and personality that shine through the page. He’s not one to get defeated by life, and as such this turns from a tale of hardship and difficulty to a tale of learning how to overcome difficulty and the power of optimism. It also covers ground that isn’t readily written about – there is plenty of information in the media about transitioning from male to female, but those transitioning from female to male tend to receive less coverage – and it’s utterly fascinating to read about Klenk’s journey.

    Refreshing, enlightening, and a darn good read, Paralian covers difficult life situations with an optimism and grace that will surprise the coldest of readers, and as such is a read I can heartily recommend to all – I imagine, like me, you’ll come out of the book uplifted and positive by the read. Many thanks to the publishers for the copy. For further reading I recommend Out of Bounds by Bruce Hugman – another portrait of a period in an incredible life, and one told with great dignity, grace, and optimism – much like Paralian.

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  3. My God! What a story…!!!  My God….

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  4. I have spent the last two weekends absolutely engrossed! Yours is a life of adventure, endurance, persistence, optimism, beauty, love and inspiration. These are the key messages that flow through, despite the very real challenges and difficulties that you have had to navigate, and I love that.

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  5. Had a quick read of three or four chapters and wow………………..well done sir ! To say that it’ not easy to write a book of this magnitude must be the understatement of the year.

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  6. I collected the book from my post office this morning and started reading it on the ferry on the way to work…. CANNOT PUT IT DOWN NOW! What a FANTASTIC read. 
    It is a very special book written by a very special person. When I started reading it brought tears of joy to my eyes. Not just because of your writing, but because I know the journey you have taken getting to this point.

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  7. ….. I JUST LOVE IT!!!!!

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  8. This is a fascinating and inspiring memoir from a man who has faced life head on and lived it to the full. Liam Klenk was adopted, had an unconventional childhood and as he became an adult, his differences made him search for answers. Klenk describes himself as being born into a female body, yet this memoir explores many other avenues, as the title says – this novel is ‘Not Just Transgender’. Klenk writes with a raw honesty, he has a matter of fact way of describing the adversity he has lived with, which makes the story even more intensely powerful. Klenk has become a strong, independent, thoughtful man, who is very self aware. ‘Paralian: Not Just Transgender’ gives you the chance to hear a captivating story, I marvelled at Klenk’s mental strength, willed him to overcome the difficulties he faced, and I appreciate very much indeed, that I’ve had the chance to read his story.

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  9. Muchos Gracias for your forum post.Really thank you! Want more. Arden

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  10. Paralian is from my point of view one of the must reads at the moment, also for people who are not or only remotely connected to the transgender scene (the transgender part is actually not such a big part of the book as I expected initially). The author tells the story of his life so far overcoming multiple astonishing odds and difficulties in his life with such optimism and good humor that it is truly inspiring. It kept me up reading until late into the night and I finished the book after only a few days of very intense reading. I couldn’t put it down and often went for ‘just one more chapter’ – which is very unusual reading a biography for me – a definite recommendation!

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  11. We hear a lot about ‘finding yourself’ and ‘being authentic’ nowadays. I’m a firm believer in the idea of living and let live, but then I’ve never experienced even a fraction of what Liam has. The scenes describing his conception, which is crazy and tumultuous all in its own right, could be a film rather than words on a page – Liam writes with raw honesty and this is powerful. I won’t include a series of plot spoilers here but what I will write is that this book is more than ‘just a memoir’, it’s a window into a life that has been lived fully and packed with challenges including the discovery of his adoption a long time into his life, meeting his birth mother, his challenges with his parents, his gender identity leading to transition to become the man he always knew he was, to travelling the world. Why Paralian? Because Liam is naturally drawn to water – where he lives, where he works – there’s always a water connection. He’s travelled and worked in the most weird and wonderful places, he’s met some incredible people, and he’s endured personal, emotional and psychological challenges I can only begin to imagine personally, but I feel I’ve lived some of those moments with him through his book. Quite incredible. Very moving. Truly inspiring.

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  12. It’s not just about transgender but also about finding the most important thing in our life: Who am I? Why am I here? A great book about finding the true inner self. Stories to laugh and stories to cry! A great mixture of love, hate, struggle, falling down, standing up and so on. You won’t be bored when you read this book and it will touch your heart. I can highly recommend this book to anyone!

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  13. I also have been lucky enough to come across Liam’s book recently, and… I was stunned about the whole story behind those lines. It is more than definitely a must-read. I couldn’t find the moment to put the book down for a sleep because i just wanted to know what was going to happen at the next chapter. And like this on and on till the end.
    I strongly recommend it.
    Not Just Transgender is not a book just about transgenders, is about Liam’s evolution through life and what is more important to me, is that there is a lot to learn from his history to try to be better towards other people.
    Is a great piece of literature.

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  14. An inspiring and wonderful book. Amazing life story from an extraordinary man.

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  15. Paralian by William Kieran Klenk is a free NetGalley ebook that I read in early June while on a road trip to and from Telluride, Colorado.
    Just as Liam assures in the introduction that his story is written from the heart, my own heart opened warmly to receive it. His self-narrative is driven by water and German philosophy, all working to jetty him past a cloistered romping childhood, a self-inquisitive, sensuous teenagehood, and an artistic, motivated, abundantly caminoistic adulthood. I enjoyed every year, every moment immensely and followed him through times of trauma and celebration, squeezing his hand therapeuticly all the way.

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  16. I loved Paralian; in fact I read it in record time, often suffering from the “just one more chapter” syndrome. Gripped by the author’s continued ability to stand in the face of adversity, I cried and laughed out loud a times. A book I have already have recommended to my friends. A truly amazing and inspirational true story.

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  17. Rare is the experience of discovering a page turner, where one cannot stop reading yet also don’t wish the book to end. Paralian is one such book. The author speaks straight from the heart into the heart. To realise that things are seldom what they seem, to listen to and trust oneself, to persevere and thrive against the odds – this memoir is an inspirational account of what it means to live, love and believe.

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  18. What a fantastic read… usually, I am not too fond of memoirs – but this one “sucked me in” from the very beginning. Liams emotional story makes you laugh and cry (unbelieavable what adventures he went through) and leaves behind a stream of positive energy, good feelings and the longing for sandy beaches on a crystal clear ocean and Macchiatos. Also loved the cinematic references. Absolutely inspiring – read it, and maybe you’ll be able to just enjoy life a tiny bit more :-)

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  19. Fantastic read. First book I haven’t been able to put down in ages.

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  20. Even the first chapter of the book is so exciting that you can’t put the book away and stop reading. Amazing life story of a fascinating person. Chapeau Liam! :)

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  21. What a story !… and beautifully written ( I highlighted many sentences to remember them, like quotes…). I couldnt put this book down.the kind of story that brings to you a wave of positive energy on life, adventure, challenges.

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  22. Paralian: Not Just Transgender follows the life of an adventurer with a deep soul, and I was captivated with this gorgeously told story. As others have said, I had trouble putting this book down and finished the whole thing in two marathon sessions of reading! Liam’s story is an incredible journey of a man’s journey to create and live a life that matches his inner self’s truest nature. It is touching, hilarious at times, infuriating at times, and above all – inspiring. Read it. You’ll be glad you did.

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  23. Fantastic book, I could not put it down. It is a lovely journey through an extraordinary individual’s very interesting life! I recommend it highly!

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  24. By reading across the book you feel like being on a roller coaster. The author takes you on a journey through unbelievable ups and downs in life – it is just crazy in any direction! A fantastic mixture of unexpected situations, hilarious moments, difficult and beautiful times, hope, fear and many more. It is written in a passionate way, very touching and inspiring!! Definitely 5 stars! I can highly recommend this book!

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  25. Considering the misfortunes that has shaped the author, from a premature birth to being an orphan born in the wrong body, target of bully at school and later in life at work, being a murder suspect, stubborn-headed romantic and workaholic, Liam takes us through a journey of his life. His generous way of telling us every single intricate detail and feeling about his past has left me hooked onto his book from day one. I couldn’t put the book down and have had many late nights due to his humour and sincerity. If one’s ever feeling down or defeated, read this book and one will probably find that their life is actually a bed of roses compared to Liam’s. His constant struggles with exceptional challenges in life has given him a more strong and invincible soul. In this day and age of prejudice and discrimination, reading into the life of this transgender man will show that these people are as human and normal, just like anyone else. Highly recommended.

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  26. Once I started with the first pages I was hooked and could not put the book down for long! What an inspiring story, told directly from the heart of the author into the heart of the reader. You will join Liam on his incredible journey through a life full of odds and difficulties, which he tackled with perseverance, optimism and good humour. Truly inspiring and as I said before a definite must read!

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  27. We all have unique life stories, and Liam Klenk has decided to share his publicly. Of course by no means all autobiographies are worth reading, however Liam Klenk’s proved on occasions hard to put down. It wasn’t just the sheer range of adversities that life threw at him and how he coped with them, but for me the main interest was the transgender theme that ran through the book. As the title says, the book is not just about this issue, but it is always in the background. As a man what I found particularly interesting about the book was the questions it raises about masculinity. What attributes make a man? Should a male human with large biceps be considered more of a man than one with smaller muscles? Is a certain aggressive tendency key to manhood? Does it simply boil down to whether we have a penis or not?…
    What makes me a man? I think the book asks questions that are very apposite in an age when traditional masculine qualities and stereotypes are being questioned.

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  28. I saved this book up until I knew I would have time to read it properly, and then I couldn’t put it down. I already knew a very small part of the story, but I was gobsmacked at the roller-coaster ride Liam has been on. This is a very honest and easy to read tale which constantly has you pinching yourself as a reminder that it is all true, and which firmly puts some of our ‘everyday’ issues into perspective.

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  29. I really wasn’t sure what to expect from this book, but met Liam at a book signing – he made an excellent impression (authors take note face-to-face is good!) and I started reading Paralian on the train on the way home.
    Far from being a very in-your-face story focusing on transgender issues, this book was actually very moving. The quality of story-telling and genuine sweetness and curiosity of the author shone through, and I found myself reading it for a couple of days straight, just to see what he did next. The fact that the author addresses transgender in such a refreshing and unique way makes this deliver exactly what it promises ‘Not just transgender’ but a remarkable life story.

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  30. The most incredibly inspiring journey, artfully transcribed in the most beautiful fashion. I’ve just finished Liam’s magical ‘Paralian’ and wish I could instantly wipe my memory, just so I can relive every single word again. Liam’s writing has the incredible power to transport you in person, to every ‘scene’; and that is a very rare find in a writer. His obvious sense of adventure and motivation to experience as much of life as possible, and with passion! – is the perfect backdrop for a ‘great read’. The addition of his own challenges of being a transgender male, adds yet another layer of emotion and interest which draws you in even closer. This by proxy offers a sense of compassion and attachment, which I believe is the ultimate destination; for a reader to find that affinity with the main character. In this case, the very real Liam Klenk. I laughed and cried my way through each page and it left with me with such a grand admiration for this human. Thank you Liam for this very personal account of your exceptional life.

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  31. The most incredibly inspiring journey, artfully transcribed in the most beautiful fashion. I’ve just finished Liam’s magical ‘Paralian’ and wish I could instantly wipe my memory, just so I can relive every single word again. Liam’s writing has the incredible power to transport you in person, to every ‘scene’; and that is a very rare find in a writer. His obvious sense of adventure and motivation to experience as much of life as possible, and with passion! – is the perfect backdrop for a ‘great read’. The addition of his own challenges of being a transgender male, adds yet another layer of emotion and interest which draws you in even closer. This by proxy offers a sense of compassion and attachment, which I believe is the ultimate destination; for a reader to find that affinity with the main character. In this case, the very real Liam Klenk. I laughed and cried my way through each page and it left with me with such a grand admiration for this human. Thank you Liam for this very personal account of your exceptional life.

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  32. It took me only a few days to finish Paralian. I couldn’t put it down and I loved every minute of it. It made me smile, cry, laugh sometimes all at the same time. He is an amazing writer and a huge inspiration. I can’t wait to read another amazing book from Liam Klenk.

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  33. What a journey through your cruel bitter and sweet life Liam! Your book is truly incredible AMAZING to read, it let me cry, after laugh and giggles – really breathtaking! Definitely recommend it to everyone. I just LOVE it and I was reading every free minute. I found myself not able to put your book down. Hope a sequel follows!!!

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  34. I was blown away by the utterly raw, open and honest story telling, this is clearly one of the bravest books I have ever read.
    Liam’s narrative is delicate and poetic, describing feelings, situations and people in the most detailed and imaginative way – even though many of his experiences were far from poetic. How any individual can not only brave all those storms he had to face, but looks at them as valuable life lessons and continues to learn from each and every experience is a testament to their incredible inner strength. I was touched by the vulnerability of this life tale Liam was brave enough to share with the world. I’m sure it will inspire many (not only transgender) people out there. Truly inspiring!

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  35. A refreshing and bold story.

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  36. This is a phenomenal autobiography. It will catapult you back into your own childhood, inciting nostalgia as you draw similarities between the one your reading and your own. It will rekindle your own passions – for work, for life, for your extra curricular activities, inspiring your dreams for your future as well as your now. It will remind you in a gentle way that judgment goes both ways, whether it’s religious, sexuality, personality, racism etc…… and that everybody makes mistakes. It will make you laugh out loud. You will feel a little teary. You will feel a desperate need to join a water-sporting group, have a party and/or road trip with a group of your loved ones, go see a circus performance, and pursue your passions.

    I cannot recommend this book enough…. In fact… I may as well go and read it again right now.

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  37. What an amazing read will keep your interest right till the end and wanting to know what is going to happen next I couldn’t put this book down such an inspirational life story Liam could teach us all a thing or two in our own lives

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  38. This is a Goodreads win review. This very good book is about the journey of finding out about life in a real way, with independence, compassion and beauty. The book really pulls you in.

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  39. An excellent book, forthright, honest and hums with positivity. This is a book well worth reading. Hopefully it will reach out to a wide community of readers. Be prepared to be challenged. An excellent price too. Recommended for anyone’s book shelf

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  40. The term “Paralian” comes from ancient Greek origins, and it has taken on the meaning of “people who live by the sea”. There could be no more apt title for Liam Klenk’s autobiography. In Paralian: Not Just Transgender, He recounts the sweeping and nomadic movements of his life via the lens of the rivers, lakes, and oceans by which he periodically makes a home. Water is the element of change and transition. It is also the element at the heart of so many human-nature entanglements; the resource that has always defined and guided the movements of our species. Fittingly for a tale of bodies, travels, transitions, and wandering, Klenk uses bodies of water to parse the sections of his life like chapters in a narrative.

    The voice and experience of Liam Klenk is tender, vulnerable, and honest. It comes to the reader unassumingly and asks only for a patient ear. As the title would suggest, Paralian: Not Just Transgender tells a tale far wider in scope than Liam’s courageous journey through gender confirmation. If anything, the story is about the contexts that occur before, during, and afterwards. It tells the story of a human being finding his place in this world. It opens near the River Enz in Germany, with a young girl named Stefanie and illustrates how a complex and tumultuous family origin, vexes and feeds her inherent confusion over identity. At the end, the reader closes on a confident, middle-aged man named Liam who views the world through hopeful, optimistic eyes from an airplane above Hong Kong. In the intervening pages a transition obviously happens but—to the author’s point—so does a full life. As Stefanie becomes Liam, the reader is taken abroad from Germany to Seattle, from Zurich to Italy to Macao, and all points in between. What makes Klenk’s tale so necessary is that we get a story about a transgendered individual that articulates that while a singular aspect of his life was important, it by no means is the sole determinant of identity. (…)

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  41. The extraordinary tale of an exceptional life. Any one of the barbed wire fences Klenk has overcome might be enough to define an average person, but this journey is as far from average as can be imagined.

    Born into the wrong body, adopted by dysfunctional parents, battling spasticity, marrying for convenience, living as an agnostic with Mormons, undergoing gender reassignment, suffering heartbreak and embracing career changes while digging deep for a true identity, this is an epic journey. An odyssey.

    Paralian, meaning a water-dweller, is a wonderful way to connect the flowing adventures and experiences. Each chapter takes the name of a body of water, and each has as much variance of temperature and hue.

    Autobiographies tread a delicate line. Especially those rare few actually written by the subject, as opposed to handed over to ghostwriters. How to balance the personal journey and the unavoidable self-regard? Thankfully, Klenk gets it right. This is essentially a subjective take on a set of jaw-dropping adventures and the character who managed not only to survive, but to triumph.

    Readers travel through peaks and troughs without ever losing sympathy with our narrator, even when he exasperates himself. By the end of the book, we feel we have made a fascinating friend and feel uplifted by the encounter.

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  42. One of the most inspiring biographies I ever read. The author takes you in his awesome story. I couldn’t stop reading. It’s not just a fascinating and touching story but also filled with insight in life, humanity and a bright sense of humor. While reading this book I recognized how beautiful, joyful – and at the same time often painful – human life can be, and that it is fully worthy to live this life, how difficult it may be. Very encouraging. I love it!

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  43. Paralian is one of those books which, after finishing it, you feel at a bit of a loss as to what to read next because you know it will be hard to find something as enthralling!
    It is one of the best books I have ever read, and definitely the best autobiography (I usually get bored at some point in an autobiography, but certainly didn’t with this one).
    The author tells a very open story of his, at times, jaw-dropping adventures and experiences during his journey, which not only takes him around the world but also leads him to realize, accept and finally embrace the truth of being transgender.
    I love the witty descriptions and comparisons in this well-written account, which also contains moments of sorrow and happiness, frustration and exuberance but a prevailing joy for life. Liam gets knocked down again and again, but always gets back up – not only for his own good but very often for the good of others too.
    An extremely motivating, heart-warming story. Liam is a true inspiration to all of us.

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  44. I really do like reading books like this… I find them simply fascinating.

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  45. What an eventful life! A candid, fascinating and moving narrative.
    Liam struggled so much over so many years, yet never wavered
    in striving for his aims – and finally achieved all he desired.
    As a man he may be of average size, but in character a real giant.
    Readers cannot but take their hat off to him!

    Parents of Naomi

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  46. Paralian by Liam Klenk is a very long story. Too long? Only if you’re an impatient reader. Liam Klenk has so much to share in this fascinating memoir that, despite its length, those readers with a thirst for knowledge and inquisitive, intelligent minds much like the author’s will be utterly riveted. Even when you think you just can’t read another page, you find yourself turning it to see what more can you learn from Paralian, a book with an unusual name and an intriguing subtitle: “Not just transgender.”

    You see, Paralian is not just about a female who transitions to male in her young adult years. While that’s a key part to understanding the protagonist’s restless disposition and endless search for self, that search takes Liam and readers into the heart and soul of countries in a way they are never depicted in travel brochures. Be prepared for a surprise, for instance, at what you might witness in a public park in Zurich in comparison to a park in North America.

    The Paralian, born Stephanie and adopted by a neurotic mother and gay father, eventually locates her birth mother and a sister she didn’t know she had, only to be rejected by both later. As a new male, he falls in love more than once, marries twice for convenience, once his father’s and once his own. Gifted with a brilliant mind and a need to prove his worthiness mostly to himself, Liam embraces one challenge after another: he becomes a photographer, an artist, a theater and events co-ordinator, and much later, despite an innate fear of, but love for water, especially the ocean, he masters the sport of scuba diving. His travels take us around Germany, Switzerland, Malta, Macau, Hong Kong and the US. His observations and reflections on each country and culture, many very detailed, along with his struggles to understand himself as a transgendered person trying to fit into society, are what make Paralian such a long, often intensive read.

    This is not a memoir for the squeamish. Details are raw, vivid, honest. Nor, as mentioned above, is it a read for the impatient or someone looking for quick entertainment. Paralian is for those who enjoy learning something new when they read and who like finding themselves still thinking about what they have read long after they finish the book. If that sounds like you, read Paralian by Liam Klenk.

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  47. I was pleased to have won this book in a Goodreads First Reads giveaway.

    It is very rare that I will read an autobiography and if and when I do, it has to be good enough to hold my interest. This was one such book! I found the book very touching and very honest and do highly recommend.

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  48. Wow! What a fantastically eye opening adventure!!! I won this book in a Goodreads giveaway and was actually really skeptical about what it would be about. Having never seen anything involving a trans person beyond the drama the media loves to show.
    Reading through it was amazing the transformation both of body and soul that Liam goes through is written in such a raw and real way.
    So many facts about the physical changes that aren’t common knowledge. The angst and fear and coming to terms with oneself were so emotional! I was so happy you found love in the end!!!! I was rooting for you the entire time!!!
    As someone who grew up in the theater community (and an Alberta local) I was so excited when you finally got to The Banff Center, I hope you get to come back to explore it during the summer season (it’s totally worth it).
    This book really brought into question gender issues and personal perspectives and feelings that I wasn’t even aware I harboured about trans identities. I don’t know how I would feel if I found out someone I was deeply attracted to was lacking a certain part downstairs. Would the emotional outweigh the physical? I also can honestly say that I’m 100% uneducated in the amount of sacrifice and effort it takes for a woman to not only transform into a man. But to have to inject yourself all the time, the scarring surgeries, and then to be faced with the decision to either maintain sexual feeling or have a penis! MIND. BLOWN. What a sacrifice. And then to spend the rest of your life having to explain to potential significant others about your downstairs situation on top of it all. I would have constant anxiety.
    Thank you for sharing your story with the world and in such a way that it wasn’t “offensive” in its delivery!!!
    LOVE LOVE LOVED IT!!!!!

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  49. Every time my eyes run across the cover, i know I’ll find something new in each chapter. To experience his mind and watch him evolve through each event in his life, each person he meets, and each new experience he has. You’ll find within the pages that you’ll laugh, and you’ll cry, and maybe even find pieces of yourself along the way. This book is a treasure within itself and was truly written with love in mind. Love of adventure, of passion, self discovery, determination, and laughter. I encourage anyone to take the time to read this book, and get a change in perspective afterwards.

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  50. “Paralian” really got me by surprise. It is such a great book!
    I’ll start with the reasons why it gets 4 out of 5 stars from me:
    · the first pages – 30 or so – looked a little bit messy; too much information in so little time. Besides, it doesn’t fit with the rest of the book’s timeline. I understand that the start of a book of memories is no easy task, but still…
    · the dates are confusing, and some even wrong – something happens at certain year, and later he talks about the same event but with a different date.
    But you SHOULD read it because it’s a well of information about being transgender… and at the same time it’s much more than that (the subtitle is spot on). It’s easy to identify with Liam – depression, efforts to find and/or understand oneself are subjects that apply to many people (myself included) and Liam finds a way to write about it that makes you relate to him and realize you’re not alone.
    Be warned, though: a great read, but not an easy one. The emotional charge is enormous and sometimes made me put the book down, take a deep breath and contemplate what a life and what a freaking world we live in.

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